I recently wrote about people turning away from Google+ because their friends were not there. It felt like being alone at a cool party. In the past few days Google+ has left the door open just a crack on occasion and let us pull some of our friends through that door and show them the glory of G+ and they all immediately asked in unison "now what?"
That's when I realized I may have been wrong. Those who I referred to previously as "sitting in the car on Facebook" should probably stay on Facebook. Now sorry if I offend and maybe you will come around but right now you are missing a gift from Google. Right in front of you is a fresh start, a ticket to a brand shiny new place of fun and wonder. Google is Willy Wonka and G+ is an edible chocolate factory.
Let me explain, friends, family, strangers following me who I don't know, others who may be reading this since it was possibly shared by another, everyone or no one...Google isn't Facebook, it isn't Twitter, it's not even a combination, it is something different in a familiar form. Google has given you your web presence in a nice social looking wrapper.
- Your Blog - go ahead and put your post right in the stream for the +public to see.
- Your pictures of your infant daughter - +family, +friends
- Took a sick day and went to the ballgame - +anyone but your work circle
- That picture you took on your phone - no need to send to G+ - it's already there just share it with the correct circle or everyone if you want (well on Android so far)
- Want to talk to your sister, brother, cousin and wife to make some plans - hangout or huddle
- Want to talk to strangers with the same interests - hangout or just start a creative post
- Want to follow those cool tech bloggers and celebrities - go ahead they don't mind, they don't have to be your friend and if it doesn't work out they have a handy "Block" circle
What was that? You say you can already do all those things with Facebook, Twitter, Skype, a phone, Wordpress, and a pen? Great, enjoy. I can also go pee in an outhouse but I'd rather have indoor plumbing.
Google+ is new, so new it only has like .1% of Facebooks users. But it has the right users. The people in G+ playing around aren't just complaining about another failed relationship or posting meaningless inspiration quotes telling their friends that they've never been happier, they aren't posting meaningless Youtube videos with a dog... never mind they are doing that, what they are also doing is making it better.
I doubt anyone is going to join Google+ if they've never been on a social network so I'm going to assume that most people have their preferred place to hangout, but I ask you to spend a few days here, follow some of the people you follow on Twitter and see what a difference 140+ characters makes, invite 9 of your Facebook friends over for a group video hangout and watch some Youtube videos together, admire the clean layout and the fresh start. Then after a few days go back to Facebook and let me know if it doesn't seem a little crowded with the mundane.
What I am hoping for is those I know come on over with an open mind and open up a little, share your interests in paragraphs not sentences, share videos of your kids not just pictures (but send them to the circles you know want to see them only), and don't worry, I'm sure farmville will get here eventually (I really hope not) and then you can share all your farmville requests with your farmville circle. You can complain about your relationship to your +trusted circle all you want.
Most of all enjoy the ride. Because we all know the G+ you see today will not be the G+ you see in 6 months or a year but my money is that it will be even better.